Tag: Inner Critic
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Feel All the Love Your Business Has To Offer.
I would really love to tell you that as I’ve got my shit all figured out, but, alas, that is not the case. In fact, I’m a DAMN FINE Business Therapist because I haven’t gotten my shit figured out! I’m in the struggle, just like you! This keeps me hungry and “in the game,” wanting…
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“Fake it til you make it” is a harmful mantra
I DO NOT WANT you to fake anything because it will trigger your Inner Critic to call bullshit on you. Once your Inner Critic calls BS all bets are off and it will actively work at getting you to take another course. No, do not lie to yourself. Do not fake anything. Please! So, you…
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Do I Love My Business?
Let me show you how to end your abusive relationship with your business and, in its place, create a love affair instead.
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Does Your Business Design Include Emotional Sustainability?
Or Are We Co-Signing Abusive Business Behaviors? Hustling toward success does not have to mean leaving ourselves emotionally bereft yet this is exactly how many “highly successful” business owners drive themselves to the top. We know these people … the ones who avoid emotion and personal challenges with “I just threw myself into my work.” You…
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The truth about intuition, and a blue bird!
Have you ever found yourself in a place where you know it is time to make a change? Maybe it is time to make some hard decisions about a relationship you are in. Maybe it is becoming clear that it is time to leave your job or maybe even your career? Whatever the decision is…
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Why I Don’t Want You To Fake It Until You Make It!
I used to be a clinical supervisor for a methadone clinic, and I have a vast amount of experience with addictions. I would say 80% of my direct practice had some kind of treatment of addictions at its core. I wish I had a dollar for every time I heard a client say “ Fake…
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3 Tips to Help You Conquer Loneliness While Building Your Online Business
Does Your Online Business Leave You Feeling Lonely? I will be honest with you, I never imagined when I decided to create an online business as a Life and Money Mindset Coach that I would be so lonely? Oh, and to be brutally honest I never imagined how challenging it would be and how many…
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Vulnerability is the Bat Signal For Your Inner Critic!
Have you ever stepped out of your comfort zone and did something big? Something different? Maybe something fun but still scary? How did you feel before? How did you feel afterwards? I have a hunch you had a range of emotions that ran from butterflies in your stomach, irritation, anxiety and maybe afterwards regret. So…
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How To Fall In Love With Your Business – Step 3 – Visualization
Have you ever had an Aha moment that changed everything in your life? I never imagined that picking up the book Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert and reading it each day would change everything. One decision to read it, one chapter, and one sentence at a time it changed everything. In one moment I realized that…
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Falling in Love with Your Business – Step 1
Step 1: Its Personal Attributes In a recent blog post, “How to Find Big Magic, and Love Your Business,” I shared about my journey in and out of an abusive relationship with my business. Yes, you heard that right, my business. Inspired by Elizabeth Gilbert’s Big Magic, I took steps to create my own “Big…
